So girls… you gorgeous sexy minxes… If I said to you, a Dildo sex toy can change your life, would you believe me?
I’m sure there is no doubt that your precious sex toy Vibe has the majestic ability to make you happy for a time 😉 But what if I told you that the key to happiness; that self confident, walking on air, girl power, hashtag winning feeling, could be yours with the click of a button? Well I bet we’d all get ‘on board’ amirite?
Well it’s true, Love is a Battlefield. We’ve all been there. You meet a guy, he’s hot to trot. You start making eyes, he wants you, you want him, wham bam thank you ma’am, the deed is done. You’ve given up the goods and there’s only two places to go from here… awkward-town or couples-central. Do you really like this guy? Do you even know him properly? Can you trust him? Are his friends weird? Do your friends think he’s weird? Or there’s the flipside… it generally goes like this:
‘Holy crap I like him so much, I mean he’s so hot and he’s so gorgeous and smart and funny and he’d be such a great partner and I mean I really think I’ve found the one, like really really he has to be the one. Thank gosh I found him, we’re going to be so happy together, I can just picture our babies and our wedding is going to be so so beautiful, I can’t believe I’ve fallen in love so fast annnnnd STOP… Does he like me the same way?’
Fast forward a couple of weeks and our earth is shattered, we’re heart broken, it hasn’t worked out -another one bites the dust.
Ladies!! Why do we do this to ourselves?? Is it our inane desire to find love, be wanted, be accepted that drives us to fall in love so quickly and give ourselves away with such haste?
Any girl with a heartbeat and a clitoris loves sex 😉 and sex with a gorgeous spunky man who makes our little love button tingle, well who in their right mind should say no?
I’ll tell you who… a girl who is looking for love on the first night!!
Girlfriend, unless you’re planning on riding that bad boy all the way to daylight then flicking your sex hair over one shoulder, stilettoes in hand with a mascara streaked wink at ‘One-Night-Stand’ boy as you happily bare foot that walk of (un)shame home, never planning on seeing him again, I strongly suggest you abstain from such nights of prompt debauchery and take heed!
There is something about meeting someone new that sends us all a bit loopy. We smile and we giggle, for no apparent reason. We let that person be our happy drug and we wonder how we functioned before they came along. Then for whatever reason, it doesn’t work out and we wonder how we’re ever going to function again until we realise that we have everything we need inside of us to be our own little happy drugs!
Girls, take it from me, self pleasure is a fantastically liberating thing.
You can do it when you want, how you want, where you want. You can watch whatever porn you want, or look at photos or read a sexy passage out of a novel if that gets you going! You are in control. You can touch yourself in just the right places with just the right amount of pressure. You can try new things, new places, new fantasies.
Besides the fact that sex feels ahhhhhmazing, it is the release of certain chemicals from the brain into the body when we reach climax that sends us on that amazing sex high.
The release of Oxytocin (the cuddle chemical) and Dopamine (the reward chemical) that occurs during sex and orgasm makes us feel out of this world and carries on with us throughout our day. You know how you walk into work with a big smile on your face and your co-worker says ‘Ms Cherry must’ve got some last night’. Yup! I’m happy coz that big ‘O’ got my sexual goddess body tingling ALL OVER and I’m in a damn good mood for it!
So they say it takes 21 days to form a habit… do you think you could masturbate every day for 21 days? Can you imagine how many wonderful happy chemicals would be pumping round your body if you made yourself cum, exactly how YOU like it, every single day?
Can you imagine how liberated you would feel, to try every toy you’ve ever wanted to? To give attention to every kinky thought inside of you? To touch, tingle, buzz and grind your way to sexual perfection every day?
And when that new guy comes around, you know, the one you’d normally jump in the sack with on the first date, you might actually take the time to get to know him and decide beforehand, whether or not he’s worthy of entering your secret sexual sphere of erotic awesomeness!
After all, we ‘aint nothing but mammal’, sex is a part of who we are as a species, when you’re sexually aware, you are living on an eternal high, and if you’re the one in control of that high, the skies the limit!
Give it a try girls! I dare you 😉
As always, love and light and happy buzzing! –Ms Cherry xxx
