BackSexual Intimacy & The Big O – cracking the myth..
Boys, WE NEED TO TALK.. I know I know. You guys hate that phrase. Three little words that when uttered are enough to strike fear into the heart of man. Those three little words that stop you in your tracks, cause your breathe to catch in your chest and send shivers up your spine (and not in a good way!)… Yes, we women know the one weakness of a man is the phrase, we need to talk! But fear not guys, this is a chat you’re actually going to want to hear!
No I’m not talking commitment, no I’m not asking you to come to my aunties cousins’ dogs christening at the weekend, no I’m not pestering you because I saw you like that chicks pic on Facey, you know, the chick with the ginormous bolt-ons which I imagine she could easily rest a post coital glass of champers and plate of strawberries atop…
What I want to talk about is something that’s going to revolutionise the way you think about sex. It’s going to crack the code on everything you thought you knew about female sexual satisfaction. It’s going to cause women around the country to want to high five good old Miss Cherry in unified relief for the eradication of this alpha male, testosterone filled state of mind that quite frankly really causes us gals headaches from time to time!
Are you ready? Ok... It’s time to talk Orgasms. Orgasms of the female variety. Those temperamental, sometimes surprising, sometimes allusive little fireworks that exist just to remind us how unpredictable everything about a woman can be.
It’s an ageless contemplation the thought that if there is no pudding, where is the proof? Is the intimacy enjoyable for a woman if the time spent investing in pillow talk, foreplay and thrustingly good time penetration doesn’t culminate in that body tingling, nipple hardening, jolly good climax? Well gents let me tell you something... sex for a woman is more that just an Orgasm. Let me paint a picture for you.
We all know that woman are deeply sensitive and nurturing beings. As much as we respond to pleasure of physical touch, we doubly respond to the pleasure of emotional connection.
It’s important to remember that not all woman can orgasm naturally. And even those who can won’t every single time. For a woman to reach climax several things need to be in place. Firstly, the angle needs to be right to hit that special spot, secondly she needs be in the right mind frame, thirdly she needs to be given time. Enough time to feel free to arrive when she is ready and not a minute sooner (what else would you expect from a queen really? :P).
But if she doesn’t arrive, does that mean she hasn’t been pleasured? Hell no! Some of the best and most passionate and connected sex a woman can have can be prior to the O... Trust me! Sometimes, just the act of being so deeply close to the object of a gals’ affections and desires is the perfect satisfaction.
Having said all of that, why stop at bumping and grinding when you can add buzzing and writhing? It’s exceptionally important to remember that whether or not she cums with the aid of your member alone, is not a measure of how sexually talented you are or how intimately compatible you are together. But hey, there is no harm in trying new things or new buzzy toys to add a third dimension to the love fest, is there?
Stress and expectations play a high role in a woman’s ability to let lose and give in to the ride. The thought that she is taking too long and her partner might be wondering why, can quickly influence her mind set and cause her to feel pressure to hurry up and get there, in turn causing a negative effect.
If there is one thing that woman kind need from you, it’s patience. And if there’s one thing woman kind need you to know, it’s that satisfaction is not synonymous with orgasm. Satisfaction comes in all forms. Massaging her back as you take her from behind. Kissing her deeply. Tickling her, spanking her, tying her hands to the bed frame as you devote your undivided attention to worshiping every inch of her.
Armed with tolerance, attentiveness and the assistance of some of the brilliant products on the sex toy market, I can guarantee you will give her the best sex she has ever experienced; orgasm or not!
Forbidden Toys have a huge range of toys perfect for every couple’s desires. Why not surprise her with a bottle of our delicious Strawberry Massage Oil and my very favourite magic wand; our 60 Speed Massager Wand. At only $45 it’s the perfect size and shape to gently stimulate her love button while you drive deep inside of her. Add to that one of our bed restraint kits and you have everything you need to make her feel the queen she is and cater to her every satisfaction! You can thank me later
Well as always my precious Tigers and Tigresses, I wish you unending nights and days seeing stars!
All my love –Miss Cherry xx