Studs and Studettes, let’s talk about SEX. Steamy hot sex… the kind that we do on special occasions… the kind we do when we first get that soooo freaking downright delicious guy or gal home after weeks of flirtations and imaginings about their body being your temple… the kind we do when we’ve polished off enough Jäger Bombs to have lost ALL inhibitions known to man and still be standing… Sex, dirty, passionate, last all night, multiple orgasm, feel good Sex.
We’ve all been guilty of falling into that hum drum trap of ‘Quick let’s bang it out, I’ve got work tomorrow’ sex… but is this really satisfying anyone? Kittens, I hear you say you don’t have time for candles, strawberries and rose petals every single night, I hear you thinking ‘but there’s got to be more right?’ Well oh yes darlings, there most definitely can be more. Mind blowing sex is a choice and commitment we have to make, but once it’s made, you’ll see just how easily it can fit into your every day life and most importantly, how much it will enhance your relationship.
So my sweets, if your every day lovemaking is all big talking and your fingers are doing the late night walking, listen up… my top tips for earth-shattering, mid-week sex are sure to hit the (G) spot:
Step 1, Tease – If we want to frolic in our love garden tonight, we need to be planting that seed this morning, and you bet we’re going to keep on watering. You know when you’re just about to get in the shower in the morning and you check yourself out nakie in the mirror. Guys, you’ve got morning glory so hard you could turn the taps on with your junk and Girls, you’ve got that first thing in the morning flat tummy, sexy bed hair and bright eyes. You just can’t help but go ‘hot damn I’m so fine, even I’d do me’. Well this is your moment. Grab that phone, strike a pose and snap away. Now my little sex students, those photos, they’re crumbs, and we’re going to drop them all day long. Straight to your partner’s phone. How else are they going to work up an appetite? 😉
Step 2, Toy – It’s lunch break, you’ve been sending each other dirty pics for hours and the throbbing in your pants is definitely building. You sneak off to the loo for a little play time and girls, this is where that little Pink Bullet Vibrator you’ve kept in your handbag comes out to play… some gentle buzzing on your love button just to tease and keep the party going. But don’t go all the way! Save it for later 😉
Step 3, Tempt – It’s evening, we have a few hours before we head to the boudoir, but that doesn’t mean we’re going to take a break from the game does it? This is your time to think about what really makes you feel sexy. Girls, is it a warm soak with gorgeous smelling bubble bath? Sneaking a little water proof vibrator in with you? Lotioning up with a gorgeous moisturiser then popping on your favourite silk nightie that just skims your bottom cheeks and gently caresses your naked nipples all night? Guys, is it a quick gym session, a shower, a gentle rub with a male masturbator, some cologne and your best boxers? Whatever it is, do it then do it and make sure you parade that confidence in front of the other. Girls, don’t forget to ‘Bend and Snap’ in that short little nightie in front of your man and Guys, coming up behind your girl, slipping your hand into her nightie to cup her breasts while giving her a passionate kiss on the back of the neck and then walking away is enough to drive a woman wild.
Step 4, Tantalize – Light some candles, whip up some cream, put on some sexy music and get into the groove. You’ve been in a state of pre-foreplay all day, but that doesn’t mean you get to skip this part. Trust me love Gods and Goddesses, skipping this bit is the last thing you want to do. You want to do this part slowly and sensually. Drink each other in. Connect with each other and be completely present. Take those soft fluffy handcuffs and cuff your partner to the bed, blind fold them if you wish and kiss them from head to toe, massaging every inch of them as you go with Strawberry Massage Oil or perhaps pour some Chocolate Body Sauce over them and lick them clean. This part is about giving your partner your undivided attention. Making them feel amazing and making their body ache and crave what you’re about to (finally!!) give them.
Step 5, Take – Now it’s time. What you’ve been waiting and baiting for all day long has finally arrived. Her body is aching, he is rock hard and honey, it’s on like Donkey Kong! Enter slowly and passionately and listen to what your partner’s rhythm is telling you. Why not slip on a little Vibrating Cock Ring? Or even slip inside a Mini Butt Plug if you’re feeling adventurous? All of that anticipation will have you seeing absolute stars in no time tonight! And you’ve still got enough time to get your eight hours in before you can do it all again tomorrow! Now aren’t you glad you took my advice? 😉
So class, as you’ve learnt, when you take the time to really connect with your partner emotionally and physically and put in that little bit of extra effort to not only sensualise your intimate atmosphere, but also invest in your own feeling of sexiness; that quick hump day bang, will give ‘Hump Day’ a whole new meaning!
Until next time my sexual cherubs, wishing you unending pleasure 😉
Love Miss Cherry xxx