After enjoying a round of steamy, wild sex with a girl, do you ever wonder if she had a good time as much as you did? Did she think it was great? Mediocre? Or worse — boring? Yes, you might have heard some “Ooohs” and “Aaahs” while you’re going at it, but did you ever stop and ask, “Did she REALLY like it? “ Or was she just too nice to have the heart to tell you frankly that you suck in bed?
Understanding what women want is like understanding cryptic codes – Don’t! But at least, try to be considerate enough to pay attention to what you suppose she likes. What do girls crave in bed but are too shy to ask from you? Instead of racking your brains trying to figure out what it is you did (or did not do) that made sex boring for her, let me show you some ideas that might come in handy the next time.
1. Be careful with her clothes.
It is not a porn flick or a raunchy sex scene from a movie! You can’t just go around ripping a girl’s clothes off at the heat of the moment. Although some girls might like it that way, it doesn’t mean you ought to be doing it unless you’re sure your girl is fine with it. It doesn’t justify ruining her pretty outfit (that she paid money just to look good in) just for the sheer fun of ripping them off. It’s completely understandable that you can’t stop yourself from being rough and beastly when you’re so turned on, but there sure is a different way of taking her clothes off quickly without ruining anything. So next time you find yourself clawing at her bra, reach out towards the back and unfasten the hook. Once it’s loose, it’ll just fall right off effortlessly.
2. Handle her with care.
Unless you want a painful grip on your balls, stop grabbing her breasts with your hands and squeezing them tightly! Handling lady parts should be done with utmost care. Not only is excessive kneading painful, it makes the breasts saggy. I’m pretty sure you want to keep them perky for as long as possible, right?
3. Invest in pleasure toys just for her.
Now this does not necessarily mean that your sexual performance is not enough, but no matter how many kama sutra techniques you’ve tried, there is still a lot of room for more exploration in the bedroom than you think you know. And many of these positions aren’t even gratifying for her. Since guys get off far too quickly compared to the ladies, why not add some kinky toys to your sensory play to help her reach her climax easily? Make her feel special by making her pleasure your priority. It’s also a great way to add some excitement to your sex life.
4. Don’t make her do things she doesn’t want to do.
It doesn’t matter how many times you put on porn while doing the deed, if she’s not into it, she’s not into it. Don’t expect her to do impossible “porn star-ish” sex crap if she’s obviously not having fun with it. Be wary of what you make her do. You can’t expect her to enjoy sex if she’s not comfortable with what she’s doing. Sex, after all, is supposed to be about making one feel good. So if it doesn’t make her feel good, forget it!
5. Let her finish first.
That, my friend, is the number one commandment every man should not fail to follow. Accelerate your title from “Ordinary Joe” to “Gentleman of the World” if you choose to live by this rule. If you are in your right mind, you should keep going until she finishes first. It would be very inconsiderate for her if you get off before her. I mean, she wants to reach her climax too, right? Sex should work in both your favor. Should you refuse to comply with it, forget about doing it with a partner.
Until next time. Stay safe & enjoy the holidays!